You seem to be holding in alot of anger. Instead of bashing everyone right off the bat, why not share your story?
John, I asked the same question of Yoko on "Aussiewsife's" thread and we did get the story.
I've also reported him/her to the mods as I've seen a few posters have been put off carrying on with their threads after receiving a response.
Yoko, the anger and judgements don't help people on this board.
Jenny