My husband and I have had no intimacy in our marriage. It has been 6 months. I have this feeling that he is cheating on me AGAIN!! This happened to our marriage more then once. I took him aside one night and asked him if he was happy with our marriage and he said it was "Great". For me it has been very lonely because we also have lost communication. I told him I wasn't happy and I feel we need to talk. He said " Hmm.." and left the room never to return and has not spoken to me in a week. What should I do.

Welcome to marriagebuilders. It is a great place to be under the circumstances. Stick with us and keep reading here. You might want to post on general questions as there is more traffic there.

Are there any signs of an affair?

Get into MC that is what you need to do. It is obvious that he is avoiding you and your suspicians. Plus avoiding all communication. If he did it once before, he is probably aware that you know all the signs. If he refuses MC, then you need to go to plan B. JMHO

Ali~

<small>[ February 07, 2005, 09:13 PM: Message edited by: Ali88 ]</small>