I have a doctor's appointment this week and my wife is insisting on being in the exam room. I explained that while it's nice that she comes with me I would rather her not be in the exam room. I should be able to talk to my doctor privately. She says I am abnormal for that. Am I??
How come you don't want her in there? Is it because the doctor is doing something embarrassing? Are you hiding something like an STD?
My H does not like me in the examining room when they are doing something embarrassing so I wait out in the lobby. But when it comes to discussing his ailment and the treatment he doesn't mind if I am there. But I am only there with mutual agreement.
Is it ok if she is there after the exam?
Btw, saying you are "abnormal" because you don't like it is disrespectful as hell. It doesn't matter why you don't like it, if you don't like it, you don't like it and she should respect that. Unless it is to hide something that directly effects her, such as an STD.