tricks and timelines: your best recovery advice? - 01/13/12 02:16 AM
My WW and I are solidly in recovery now, and MB has given us a lot of positive feeling back. We're happier now than we were for months before the A, and it's definitely snowballing.
But that doesn't mean it's easy. She still has occasional thoughts to push away, and I am troubled daily by surges of mind movies, anger, and resentment.
What were your tricks to get through recovery? How did you process the normal feelings of anger, betrayal, guilt etc and move on? How long did it take for you? I'm sure any advice you can offer to help get through each day would be helpful to many here.
But that doesn't mean it's easy. She still has occasional thoughts to push away, and I am troubled daily by surges of mind movies, anger, and resentment.
What were your tricks to get through recovery? How did you process the normal feelings of anger, betrayal, guilt etc and move on? How long did it take for you? I'm sure any advice you can offer to help get through each day would be helpful to many here.