H flirting...says intentions are joking - 09/11/13 06:50 PM
Recently went to a grocery store together and they were giving out food samples. I walked up to my husband who was waiting in the sample line and was holding a sandwich sample and I said 'oh, that looks good'....the food sample lady pipes up and says..'of course, i made it'.....my H then says to the sample lady .."do you come with the sandwich, too?". She then responded....'sir, I am offended by that statement!".....I looked at my husband and said..."I AM TOO!" and walked on to continue the shopping. He then stays in line for his sample and then comes over to me and says...I didn't hear what she said....(he has complete hearing loss in one ear which is true)and then proceeds to tell me that the sample lady didn't quit...she kept on with the coming on to him statements. I asked him to sit down so we could talk...I asked him how does he think that makes me feel when he is making those types statements to other women? He says I shouldn't be so upset and know that he doesn't mean anything by them. I told him that I was glad she said what she did because it demonstrates my point....that women do consider those types of comments as a man coming on to her!!!!!
Looking for feedback....am I to sensitive or is my H out of line??? Seeing a counselor regarding these types of problems soon.
Looking for feedback....am I to sensitive or is my H out of line??? Seeing a counselor regarding these types of problems soon.