I did it again - 10/09/15 10:16 PM
DDay anniversary is right around the corner. I have been on edge. Then today I got a call that my oldest son was on his way into surgery, in another state. I tell my H what was going on, and he seemed not to hear what I am saying. Because he is pawing and groaping me. I just got up and took a shower. He has no idea what is wrong with me. Basically he goes with me to my eye appointment and the whole time, like a petulant child, demanding my attention. Meanwhile I am texting with my mother to find out if she would be able to get to the hospital he is at. He has some learning and comprehension issues. He won't understand totally what is going on.
This whole thing is a huge trigger! I said some not nice things, brought up OW#2 and how he used his fathers FAKE surgery to stop and see her on the way to his parents house last year. I said I guess if there was someone you wanted to see on the way you would have suggested we leave imeaditly... Yes I know what I did.. Disrespectful judgement, I was angry, but I didn't yell, i was out of line. I am now angry with myself and with him.
Now we are on the way to the hospital, not his idea. Our son is 25, not independent. Homeless most of the time, is bipolar. My husband doesn't like him very much. He won't take care of himself and has been a huge disappointment to him and the family. But he is our son and is hurting, I will be there for him. Then return home.
We still have 2 hours left in the car.. No sure what to do
This whole thing is a huge trigger! I said some not nice things, brought up OW#2 and how he used his fathers FAKE surgery to stop and see her on the way to his parents house last year. I said I guess if there was someone you wanted to see on the way you would have suggested we leave imeaditly... Yes I know what I did.. Disrespectful judgement, I was angry, but I didn't yell, i was out of line. I am now angry with myself and with him.
Now we are on the way to the hospital, not his idea. Our son is 25, not independent. Homeless most of the time, is bipolar. My husband doesn't like him very much. He won't take care of himself and has been a huge disappointment to him and the family. But he is our son and is hurting, I will be there for him. Then return home.
We still have 2 hours left in the car.. No sure what to do