I'm done and spent. My husband is wearing me down with this crap. I just can't believe he truly loves and cares for me by allowing me and my daughter to waste away in this house. I want to scream at him Its over! I can't play this game with you Either you get your butt home or its good bye! My work and school work is suffering because this relationship how it stands is so flipping time consuming. For ever suggesting I have to make a go at this and be together under one roof, he finds an excuse. I'm not sure how much more of this I can take before I throw in the towl. Dear God it takes all my stretgh to bite my tonuge. I'm so digusted and just want to forget about men until I graduate from college.

My dear, take a deep breath. We have all been where you are right now.

He has hurt you enough already. It looks like in the other posts he is thinking about reconciling? If so, it is now up to HIM to prove to you he is worthy. If he is truly sorry, he will go the extra mile to make things right. If he doesn't, then you are better off without him.

I am sorry you are going through this. It is tough I know. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" />

Keith