Emotional Limbo... How did you move on? - 09/22/10 04:47 PM
Hey All.
Have a fairly new, very talented (artist) friend. Divorced/seperated abour 1.5 years. moved in new BF (yeah I know) about 12 mos ago.
New BF addict she can not get out of her house. She also talks to her XH multiple times daily.
Wonders (at the ripe ole age of 39!) if there will ever be another, more "normal" guy for her.
Says she "loves" her relationship with her X, would never give up that friendship/relationship. Does not want to hurt BF- would love to have him dissapear from her house.
BF "left" her/her house last week... he then O.D.ed. She and his sister picked him up from hospital 3 days later.... 3 days after a "nonresponsive" diagnosis
and depositied him back at HER PLACE!
AAnnnnnd. she wonders why Mr. Right won't knock at her door!
How do you even begin to tell this person how to disengage?
Have a fairly new, very talented (artist) friend. Divorced/seperated abour 1.5 years. moved in new BF (yeah I know) about 12 mos ago.
New BF addict she can not get out of her house. She also talks to her XH multiple times daily.
Wonders (at the ripe ole age of 39!) if there will ever be another, more "normal" guy for her.
Says she "loves" her relationship with her X, would never give up that friendship/relationship. Does not want to hurt BF- would love to have him dissapear from her house.
BF "left" her/her house last week... he then O.D.ed. She and his sister picked him up from hospital 3 days later.... 3 days after a "nonresponsive" diagnosis
and depositied him back at HER PLACE!
AAnnnnnd. she wonders why Mr. Right won't knock at her door!
How do you even begin to tell this person how to disengage?