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Posted By: WilliamJ Getting Married - 02/02/05 08:28 PM
I have no idea if this is the right forum to post this but this is the place I had my life saved. I haven't the time to give all the details but I have been on here since oct 1999, member #3000something. Anyhow, after losing my mind and going through the pain and life change I am on the otherside and living the hope I only dreamed of. This weekend I am going to propose to my girlfriend.

She is the woman I have always wanted, 100 times better than my ex. Funny how God takes care of us if we give him time and get out of his way.

I have been using the tools set forth in the concepts, POJA all that stuff. It does work when used properly.

Those of you in the pits of despair, fear not because these trials will strengthen you if you choose. They will also destroy you if you choose that.

Anyhow I am in love and she in love with me and Imma get married.

<small>[ February 02, 2005, 02:38 PM: Message edited by: WilliamJ ]</small>
Posted By: LostHusband Re: Getting Married - 02/02/05 08:43 PM
Yipee!!!!! Horay!!!!!!!

Way 2 go ((((WilliamJ)))))

That's toooooo kewl. I remember you from "back in the day" and it's awesome to see something beautiful rise from the ashes.

So c'mon, give us a little hint as to "How you're going to POP the question?"
Posted By: Lora Re: Getting Married - 02/03/05 12:48 AM
Great big Congratulations to you!

I think we started the same time. I am divorced and happy in a new relationship and in love with someone who seems much more suited to me too. Not ready to take the big plunge though.

I wish you all the best. Its so good to see oldtimers come back with good news.
Posted By: Bellevue Re: Getting Married - 02/03/05 01:41 AM
Hi, I remember you too. Nice to see you have rebuilt your life and that there's a lady smart enough to appreciate you and all your relationship skills.
Posted By: WilliamJ Re: Getting Married - 02/03/05 01:48 AM
not to be terribly cliched, but i had to make lemonade from lifes lemons.
Posted By: K Re: Getting Married - 02/03/05 09:45 PM
Congratulations!!!

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Posted By: Just Learning Re: Getting Married - 02/04/05 01:43 AM
Well, well. Hi WilliamJ,

It has been a long time but this is great news. Congratulations and I hope your life is filled with many happy times.

God Bless,

JL
Posted By: cinderella Re: Getting Married - 02/04/05 04:30 AM
Man!!! That is wonderful news! I'm excited for you!!
Posted By: WilliamJ Re: Getting Married - 02/05/05 06:15 AM
i wish we could add attachments, i'd post you guys the ring i made for her. it is 1 carat(sp) oval saphire with .25 carat round diamonds next to it.

cinderella, i still have your christmas ornements.
Posted By: MEDIC238 Re: Getting Married - 02/06/05 01:45 AM
Holy Poop Bill!!!1

My "old" puter took a nose dive after a power spike and I lost everything. Email contacts, company records, you name it.

This is great news and I couldn't be happier for you. Bud, you def deserve it.

Oh and um... I never got christmas ornements from Cinderella. What's up with that?

E me you Putz, Moose7771@rcn.com or I will hunt you down and kill you. Just kidding, I know where you are, I will just kill you. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

Zippy rules, never forget that.
Posted By: cinderella Re: Getting Married - 02/06/05 06:14 AM
So, Bill, what did she say? Huh? Inquiring minds want to know!!!!!!

And, did you really make the ring or did you have it made?

Tim, uh, I guess I forgot something. Uh, I guess you want some cranes? How many? Email me at cinderella4mb@yahoo.com. I was sort of depressed this fall. Not sure why. It got better though. Then the bottom fell out of my life but not out of my emotions this time.
Posted By: knowalibis Re: Getting Married - 02/06/05 06:44 AM
congrats....
i dont know you but you are here and us idiots are special...
many happy days to yews two
Posted By: WilliamJ Re: Getting Married - 02/06/05 09:20 PM
i made the ring, had the stones set by a friend.
Posted By: Mitzi05 Re: Getting Married - 02/08/05 12:47 PM
Wow!! It's been so long since I logged in here, I forgot everything and had to start a new acct. LOL

BILL!!! I am soooo happy for you!!!! We went thru so much and look how it has turned out! Congratulations to you and may your life be soo full of happiness!!!

(((((HUGS)))))
Mitzi <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />
Posted By: Paul Moyers Re: Getting Married - 02/09/05 03:28 AM
My word look at all the names of old!

Congratulations Bill, well deserved.

I've come along way, perhaps some day I can fill you in.
Posted By: boomer Re: Getting Married - 02/09/05 03:15 PM
Congrats WilliamJ...

I'm also from the same time-frame. I'm "Happily Divorced", raising my two girls, and engaged to be married to the most beautiful, smart, well-adjusted girl in the whole world....

Too often, people try to salvage something just because it's familiar. I tried for years, realized I wasn't happy, wouldn't be happy, couldn't be happy living in such a dysfunctional relationship..I divorced her (she was the WW) and haven't looked back since..
Posted By: LovedAlot Re: Getting Married - 02/09/05 11:15 PM
MANY WARM WISHES TO YOU AND YOUR FIANCE!!!

Take what you've learned from the past and bring it forward to assure your happiness and joy in the future!
Posted By: WilliamJ Re: Getting Married - 02/10/05 10:43 PM
what is quite nice is i have directed my fiance to this site so she can read and leran about the basic concepts. i have been trying apply these in our relationship since the beginning. they work. i am making us read the book love busters together so we can avoid pitfalls.
Posted By: Resilient Re: Getting Married - 02/17/05 06:01 AM
Wishing you a wonderful and well deserved life, William.

Congrats and God Bless,
Jo

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Posted By: terri Re: Getting Married - 03/21/05 12:34 AM
OK, so I'm a day late and a dollar short ... all right, a MONTH late ...

Bill, congratulations! I send many wishes for happiness, love and sanity for your future!

It's been so loooong since I've read here. I miss you guys!
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