if you have NC and pay CS... - 04/16/14 03:18 PM
has the OW ever come looking for a modification?
When we went to court she was crying when she left because she thought my H made more than he did and that she'd be getting a lot more money. She also wanted him to pay for health insurance and had the nerve to tell the mediator "he has a family, so he probably has a family plan anyways"...since he did not (I pay insurance for our son through my job) they only made him pay CS since it'd be way too much to change his insurance to a family plan on top CS.
Anyways...what we got from it was she's money hungry and looking for him to support her. We haven't heard from her since (though that was only in December).
Since then my H has started a non-profit organization through his job (he's a teacher) and we're expecting our 2nd child due in December 2014!
I'm scared that OW may come back and try to get more money because she's been being nosey and knows about the non-profit now (he has an instagram page for the org and she started following it, but we blocked her). The mediator took into account our son when figuring out CS (which she didn't have to do, but did as a curtosey thank god). I'm scared if OW takes him back to court and they see we're having another one they'll make him pay more just for having more kids (ironic...since OW's get everything when they decide to have these kids on their own).
Has it ever happen to you? How'd the experience go? or is it usually once they get an amount they leave you alone? What can I do to protect us (other than separate and file my own claims)?
When we went to court she was crying when she left because she thought my H made more than he did and that she'd be getting a lot more money. She also wanted him to pay for health insurance and had the nerve to tell the mediator "he has a family, so he probably has a family plan anyways"...since he did not (I pay insurance for our son through my job) they only made him pay CS since it'd be way too much to change his insurance to a family plan on top CS.
Anyways...what we got from it was she's money hungry and looking for him to support her. We haven't heard from her since (though that was only in December).
Since then my H has started a non-profit organization through his job (he's a teacher) and we're expecting our 2nd child due in December 2014!
I'm scared that OW may come back and try to get more money because she's been being nosey and knows about the non-profit now (he has an instagram page for the org and she started following it, but we blocked her). The mediator took into account our son when figuring out CS (which she didn't have to do, but did as a curtosey thank god). I'm scared if OW takes him back to court and they see we're having another one they'll make him pay more just for having more kids (ironic...since OW's get everything when they decide to have these kids on their own).
Has it ever happen to you? How'd the experience go? or is it usually once they get an amount they leave you alone? What can I do to protect us (other than separate and file my own claims)?