I just want to say in your posting to heavenly from a day or two ago I agree with your outlook and attitude about the OC. It is possible to see the OC coming to stay with you. I sometimes think this will be our goal down the line. Then who will be hurting when their own children do not even want to live with them. After all the pain she has given my H and I she would deserve it, as your OW would also. We have two great children and seven nieces and nephews. Our OW has only the one child, our OC and the Oc has no cousins, what fun he will have with all of us I hope. for the Oc sake and also to I hope make the OW even more jealous then she already is. And as far as the money goes your amount is great my H pays close to 500.00 a month, and we suffer because of it. I do not see how one child needs that much $, and the OW lives at home with parents. I better stop I could complain forever and then that would bring me down and get me started and I have been doing pretty good.

Yes Gabbi,<BR>I feel very fortunate that we are paying as little as we are. I know it may not last forever, but for now we're lucky.<P>And even though I have to grin and bare it every time I'm near the OW... I have the confidence in my heart that she suffers now (since she can't have him) and will suffer in the future when her child wants to be with us. I hate to be revengeful, but oh well<P>------------------<BR>Zebra Baby ...<P>Lord, give me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference.