Found out the real truth-Now what?? - 03/09/10 01:38 PM
Hi, I am a first time poster on this site and really looking for some advice.
The week of Thanksgiving I found a hotel receipt in my husband's car. I had just been released from the hospital after having back surgery. He made up an elaborate story that he was depressed and decided to get a prostitue but once at the hotel, he could not go through with it. Ok, I am fairly intelligent and I really knew that did not make sense, but he was so convincing telling me that I had to believe him, blah, blah, blah. Well, I asked for his password for his work emails and he gave it to me. I came across nothing else until last week. I found texts from a woman ta works for him with XXOO. He admitted everyting. She is also married. He says he loves me and it is over. We are already going to a counselor, and he says it is not me, it is him. Well, I am totally stunned and still recovering from my back. I feel if he could do this when I was most vulnerable, what is to stop him down the road?? Please help!
The week of Thanksgiving I found a hotel receipt in my husband's car. I had just been released from the hospital after having back surgery. He made up an elaborate story that he was depressed and decided to get a prostitue but once at the hotel, he could not go through with it. Ok, I am fairly intelligent and I really knew that did not make sense, but he was so convincing telling me that I had to believe him, blah, blah, blah. Well, I asked for his password for his work emails and he gave it to me. I came across nothing else until last week. I found texts from a woman ta works for him with XXOO. He admitted everyting. She is also married. He says he loves me and it is over. We are already going to a counselor, and he says it is not me, it is him. Well, I am totally stunned and still recovering from my back. I feel if he could do this when I was most vulnerable, what is to stop him down the road?? Please help!