A Former Co-Worker BW Did Not Survive the Affair - 04/12/10 09:15 PM
I posted this on Halloween 2007
Since this post she has gotten divorced, her brother died, she lost her job here a year ago and went into a downward struggle with alcohol.
She committed suicide yesterday. I have known her for over 13-years. She has two daughters in their early 20�s and one granddaughter. What an awful waste.
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A woman I work with had her D-Day Monday morning. I have known her and her husband for over 10 years when we worked together at another company. She got the �I never loved you� speech just prior to finding out he cleaned out the bank accounts. The OW is a skank he picked up while working a job for a towing company. It sounds like she rewarded him for his services right on the spot. What a nice girl!
I know her in-laws as well and have always thought the world of them but they turned out just like the rest; �Sorry to hear this DDIL, but you know it takes two to destroy a marriage. Ta-ta and good luck.� They were married for 12-years.
I told her about MB and gave her some reading material. She says she has no intention of saving the marriage and would never let him touch her again. I told her MB will be able to help her a lot with her personal recovery as well. All her children are from a prior marriage and are fully grown so a least that will be no issue. She says she has no need or desire to ever see him again. She is very tough but you can see she is hurting pretty bad.
I told her she needed to get to a clinic for testing. She said it was the first thing she thought off. There is a significant overlap in SF with both women. What a POS he is.
Affairs suck.
Her WH works at the same company Gollum worked for when he got caught at his second affair. He had to leave that company due to the affair and came to the company where Wayzilla and I worked.
I know her in-laws as well and have always thought the world of them but they turned out just like the rest; �Sorry to hear this DDIL, but you know it takes two to destroy a marriage. Ta-ta and good luck.� They were married for 12-years.
I told her about MB and gave her some reading material. She says she has no intention of saving the marriage and would never let him touch her again. I told her MB will be able to help her a lot with her personal recovery as well. All her children are from a prior marriage and are fully grown so a least that will be no issue. She says she has no need or desire to ever see him again. She is very tough but you can see she is hurting pretty bad.
I told her she needed to get to a clinic for testing. She said it was the first thing she thought off. There is a significant overlap in SF with both women. What a POS he is.
Affairs suck.
Her WH works at the same company Gollum worked for when he got caught at his second affair. He had to leave that company due to the affair and came to the company where Wayzilla and I worked.
Since this post she has gotten divorced, her brother died, she lost her job here a year ago and went into a downward struggle with alcohol.
She committed suicide yesterday. I have known her for over 13-years. She has two daughters in their early 20�s and one granddaughter. What an awful waste.
For you Chris and DDx2.
too. What a waste of life. Sometimes I wonder how WS and OP can sleep at night.