Succesful plan A but could not wait till plan B - 08/26/11 08:37 AM
Dear forum members I hope you still remeber my story in Diabwilly looking for help. I did apply plan A, and got access to facebook page of the man and got the email account password of my wife. I went through and found several mails from the man sending my wife pornographic pictures and my wife enjoying it. She eve asked him to change his picture in the facebook and his profile so that no one recognizes him. I was so chocked that I could not sleep. She sensed that something was wrong and asked what it was. I could not hold and I blew everything out. I did not tell about what I saw in the emails only what I saw in the facebook. WOO what an angry reaction I got. 1000 words a minute. The relation was an innocent one, nothing happened and nothing would have happened. I am a sick man, I am keeping her as a prisoner, she would rather go and leave me alone than suffer this humiliation etc....
I am the kind of guy that does not speak much when she is angry. I tried to explain that a relation between a married man and a married woman that is kept secret from the other respective spouses cannot be innocent. It is bad and ends with trouble when one betrayed spouse finds out. Why keep this relation so secret for so long ? A year or so.
She would not listen to my reasoning and she does not recognize her fault. I am the one that is sick. I still have copies I made of his and her emails with all the porn pictures he sent her. She does not know that I have seen her emails but I am sure she suspects but still insists that in the facebook there was nothing suspicious or showing infidelity. It can be true that they had not reached that stages due to circumstances of distance. Switzerland and Germany were we live. I got so angry that I sent an email this morning to the man telling him that I have collected all the data against him and if he does not stop contacting my wife I will sue him in court. I am lost and do not know what to do. If she decides to leave I will not stop her. It will hurt badly and the kids will be lost.
What to do?
Diabwilly
I am the kind of guy that does not speak much when she is angry. I tried to explain that a relation between a married man and a married woman that is kept secret from the other respective spouses cannot be innocent. It is bad and ends with trouble when one betrayed spouse finds out. Why keep this relation so secret for so long ? A year or so.
She would not listen to my reasoning and she does not recognize her fault. I am the one that is sick. I still have copies I made of his and her emails with all the porn pictures he sent her. She does not know that I have seen her emails but I am sure she suspects but still insists that in the facebook there was nothing suspicious or showing infidelity. It can be true that they had not reached that stages due to circumstances of distance. Switzerland and Germany were we live. I got so angry that I sent an email this morning to the man telling him that I have collected all the data against him and if he does not stop contacting my wife I will sue him in court. I am lost and do not know what to do. If she decides to leave I will not stop her. It will hurt badly and the kids will be lost.
What to do?
Diabwilly