Detachment - 06/16/12 03:17 PM
After some heartfelt soul searching, a step back from everything and a good look at it all, I realize my WH is completely detached. He has no desire to communicate, to initiate sex, to be affectionate or anything else with me.
I asked him why and he says it is because I am still spying on him and searching. He says "search all you want" there is nothing to find. He tells me he can't deal with this anymore because I can't believe that the A is over and he is not talking to her anymore.
I am like a schoolgirl, getting all giddy waiting for him to come home, wanting him to be under my skin and I get nothing and suffer disappointment, depression and misery. I can't stop this cycle.
Anyone?
I asked him why and he says it is because I am still spying on him and searching. He says "search all you want" there is nothing to find. He tells me he can't deal with this anymore because I can't believe that the A is over and he is not talking to her anymore.
I am like a schoolgirl, getting all giddy waiting for him to come home, wanting him to be under my skin and I get nothing and suffer disappointment, depression and misery. I can't stop this cycle.
Anyone?