Wife had an affair. help - 09/15/12 09:29 AM
I recently was told that my wife had an affair. She confessed it to me. The problem I have is that I don't believe she would have told me had his wife not found out. So she did and my wife decided to come clean. I was devastated! I had to know all the details, which I regret now. She said that they never had sex but he tried making sexual advances. She saw him every Friday at work and in her office is where everything happened. They hugged and kissed almost every Friday and he would try to do more. She said that he did kiss her breasts and a couple other things but she never let him do anything else. She said that she just needed someone to talk to and that he was nice to her. I love her so much and have gone to marriage counseling. I just can't get the pictures of him doing this stuff to her. I am worried that it will happen again even though she says I have nothing to worry about. She said she is happy with me now because I changed. That was all she ever wanted. He still delivers to her work but doesn't see her or even go inside her building. I am really struggling with this. Just don't want to be the fool. I told her it would have been easier if she would have ended it, but I feel like she just had to settle for me.