just found this site today.
i am glad that i listened to my heart and exposed the affair to my grown sons in front of their dad. also, to his family and mine.
unique situation that we are dealing with...
depression
midlife crisis
overwhelming work issues

taking steps for him to overcome all of this. he added the affair to the mix... that was his decision. he still has the other issues to deal with and we are slowly taking those steps to find his ultimate healing.