Alcoholic spouse - 02/17/13 09:29 PM
Please give me feedback , I'm sinking into depression but I'm working on s job transfer
And leaving my spouse of 8 years together, my question is his mother is under hospice care with stage 4 cancer, I really despise her so does my 12 yr old due caused us a lot of problems before .
My H has admitted to knowing H has a problem with alcohol but instead of doing something about it now it has intensified . His mothers illness hasent helped matters,
My point is I feel emotionally , physically , neglected ,if I bring up the subject or his lack of lovemaking we get into arguments then he starts throwing stuff..
I
Would it be wrong for me to leave him with his mother dying?
I'm sad to say my love for him has exhausted its course with the effects of alcohol. I do love him but I don't FEEL it's both ways.
Any advise,I'm having panic attacks n feel tired from depression.
And leaving my spouse of 8 years together, my question is his mother is under hospice care with stage 4 cancer, I really despise her so does my 12 yr old due caused us a lot of problems before .
My H has admitted to knowing H has a problem with alcohol but instead of doing something about it now it has intensified . His mothers illness hasent helped matters,
My point is I feel emotionally , physically , neglected ,if I bring up the subject or his lack of lovemaking we get into arguments then he starts throwing stuff..
I
Would it be wrong for me to leave him with his mother dying?
I'm sad to say my love for him has exhausted its course with the effects of alcohol. I do love him but I don't FEEL it's both ways.
Any advise,I'm having panic attacks n feel tired from depression.