cheating husband - 09/03/14 10:44 AM
Need Help!
Im 45 years old and been married to my wife for 23 years. I have always bee faithful and crazy about her.
I went through a bad time mentally over the last 9 months. Depressed, too much time on my hands ( kinda retired from work ) I was resentful of my wife as well but i can see now it was all my doing.
I had a friendship with a younger girl and eventually had sex 1x. Just once.
I wasnt even attracted to her and i regret it with all my heart.
My wife found out and i lied about it because of shame, embarrassment, guilt, and i didnt want to hurt her anymore then i already did.
She says she gave me a few chances to work things out but i honestly dont remember. I wasnt myself and i was in a total fog.. For months.
Im doing all i can now to make things right with my wife but she says she cant live with the thought of my cheating in her mind.
Everytime i tried to talk with her she brings up the things i had done.
I love my wife with all my heart and i truly regret what Ive done to us.
I ended the friendship with the OW as well about 4 months ago. No contact and iam not even interested. Just want to get some advice on what i can do to make my wife trust me again and get through this terrible situation i have created.
Please help!
I appreciate it
Im 45 years old and been married to my wife for 23 years. I have always bee faithful and crazy about her.
I went through a bad time mentally over the last 9 months. Depressed, too much time on my hands ( kinda retired from work ) I was resentful of my wife as well but i can see now it was all my doing.
I had a friendship with a younger girl and eventually had sex 1x. Just once.
I wasnt even attracted to her and i regret it with all my heart.
My wife found out and i lied about it because of shame, embarrassment, guilt, and i didnt want to hurt her anymore then i already did.
She says she gave me a few chances to work things out but i honestly dont remember. I wasnt myself and i was in a total fog.. For months.
Im doing all i can now to make things right with my wife but she says she cant live with the thought of my cheating in her mind.
Everytime i tried to talk with her she brings up the things i had done.
I love my wife with all my heart and i truly regret what Ive done to us.
I ended the friendship with the OW as well about 4 months ago. No contact and iam not even interested. Just want to get some advice on what i can do to make my wife trust me again and get through this terrible situation i have created.
Please help!
I appreciate it