Thread for Vince66 - 05/21/15 11:35 PM
I need help. I am the father of 3 step-kids and 2 boys with my WS. We have been married 15 years. I am her 2nd husband and met her while she was separated from her 1st husband. About 7 years ago, my WS traveled to AZ to attend a funeral of her daughters grandmother. I thought it was unusual that she did not take our daughter to the funeral. When she returned, i could feel she had been unfaithful but she lied to me for almost a year before I caught her sending nude photos to another man. She confessed that she had been with an old flame from HS and had slept with him. I was devestated but told her I would forgive her if she promised it was over and she would never contact him again. Over the next year, I caught her chatting with men on Craigslist and found new nude photos on her phone. I withdrew and could not perform with her due to images of what she was doing with the men she was seeing. We grew apart and all intimacy between us ceased. In 2011 I discovered her profile on Ashley Madison and confronted her. She told me that she would delete her profile but secretively opened a new one. Earlier this year I discovered she is seeing a man who works for the Dept of Homeland Security Criminal Alien Taskforce. I confronted her and she left me and the kids. I dearly love my wife and want her back but I cannot endure her constant cheating. We have filed bankruptcy to save our home but now I have been left to deal with an emotional and financial nightmare. Someone, please help me find the correct path to take. Im at a total loss as to what to do and am an emotional wreck