Coffee with a Wayward: Any Advice? - 10/15/16 11:24 PM
Greetings.
Just recently, a former pastor from my hometown posted a YouTube video sharing the story about his new love over this last year. The general breakdown is this:
� H(38) married with 4 kids.
� Hadn't had sex in 6 years. Felt rejected.
� Felt he couldn't tell anyone or get a divorce because he's a pastor.
� Meets OW(18-20?) at church and falls in love.
� She sits on his lap in his office and they confess their love for each other.
� During a church camp, he invites her to his personal cabin and they have sex.
� Confesses to supervisor, loses his job.
� Confesses to wife and moves out.
� Picks up OW and has sex in a public restroom.
� OW's parents kick her out of their house.
� Now living with OW somewhere.
� Says he has divorced his wife.
I asked if he'd be willing to get together over coffee and talk more about everything, and he agreed.
In your experience, do you have any advice on what the most important/effective things I should be talking with him about during our conversation might be?
Just recently, a former pastor from my hometown posted a YouTube video sharing the story about his new love over this last year. The general breakdown is this:
� H(38) married with 4 kids.
� Hadn't had sex in 6 years. Felt rejected.
� Felt he couldn't tell anyone or get a divorce because he's a pastor.
� Meets OW(18-20?) at church and falls in love.
� She sits on his lap in his office and they confess their love for each other.
� During a church camp, he invites her to his personal cabin and they have sex.
� Confesses to supervisor, loses his job.
� Confesses to wife and moves out.
� Picks up OW and has sex in a public restroom.
� OW's parents kick her out of their house.
� Now living with OW somewhere.
� Says he has divorced his wife.
I asked if he'd be willing to get together over coffee and talk more about everything, and he agreed.
In your experience, do you have any advice on what the most important/effective things I should be talking with him about during our conversation might be?