Emotional affair - 11/24/16 05:52 AM
My husband and I started dating my freshman year in high school 1996. We got engaged his senior year after graduation 1999. We got married summer 2000. We have a 3 year old and 10 month old.
My husband became distant mean hateful aggressive and absent in recent months. It caused strife in our marriage. I thought I was going crazy and the kids were our problem. I sought psychiatrist help and counseling. I began feeling better and thought we would do better but we didn't.
Two weeks ago he came to me seeking separation. He said hes found someone at work he wants to be with. He swears there's been no intimacy yet. I believe him. I'm sure it's emotional affair at this point. She's fulfilling his ego emotional needs conversation and all. Things I couldn't fulfill lately because of how he's been treating me and the kids.
I'm begging him not to do this. He says he thinks it's what he wants. But he hasn't moved out yet and life is pretty much the same as before except he isn't as mean probably clearing his chest helped. We're kind of distant right now with each other but overall it's peaceful. I feel there's hope and I've promised him the world and anything I can do to be all he needs and wants. I truly would do anything to save us. Hes on the edge and I need to act fast to keep him from doing this. I'm not sure how. my words don't seem to be helping. I've tried changing some things about myself and I'm not sure its helping. I'm afraid to drive him farther away. Help...
My husband became distant mean hateful aggressive and absent in recent months. It caused strife in our marriage. I thought I was going crazy and the kids were our problem. I sought psychiatrist help and counseling. I began feeling better and thought we would do better but we didn't.
Two weeks ago he came to me seeking separation. He said hes found someone at work he wants to be with. He swears there's been no intimacy yet. I believe him. I'm sure it's emotional affair at this point. She's fulfilling his ego emotional needs conversation and all. Things I couldn't fulfill lately because of how he's been treating me and the kids.
I'm begging him not to do this. He says he thinks it's what he wants. But he hasn't moved out yet and life is pretty much the same as before except he isn't as mean probably clearing his chest helped. We're kind of distant right now with each other but overall it's peaceful. I feel there's hope and I've promised him the world and anything I can do to be all he needs and wants. I truly would do anything to save us. Hes on the edge and I need to act fast to keep him from doing this. I'm not sure how. my words don't seem to be helping. I've tried changing some things about myself and I'm not sure its helping. I'm afraid to drive him farther away. Help...