Need Advice - 01/01/18 11:05 PM
New to the board married with 2 children. Around Nov my wife asks us to attend therapy. We have had issues in the past. I felt like something was off and went into her texts. She was texting the other guy about how she thinks our marriage is over. The other man pretty much said he no longer wanted to go on with the relationship in the text chain and said he could not deal with the guilt. They were previously friends for years. She continued to flirt with him after he said they needed to return back to the way things were and she seemed to be the aggressor. I found out this was going on for slightly over a month and a half and it never progressed past meeting on 3-4 occasions and kissing. I obviously want to save my marriage and am looking for advice. Should i even concern myself with the other guy at this point ? She has given me access to her phone/email after i confronted her.