Husband has cheated 5 times in 10 years - 02/16/18 02:35 AM
4 years ago on Boxing day and three months after I had given brith to twins I found out that my husband had had 3 affairs through his work. The following year was intense, we came to this site, used a lot of the principles and tried to rebuild our marriage. Things seemed to be getting better and I even trusted him again for the most part but I always felt and told him that I didn't think he had really addressed the core issues that had led to the infidelity in the first place which left us vulnerable for a repeat. Well two months ago I discovered that my husband has hand an additional 2 affairs, again through his work. We have 4 young kids (8, 6 and twins 4) and I am again totally shattered. I really do not know what to do. I have no one I can talk to and I feel so completely broken. In my heart of hearts I don't want to divorce but I really cannot see myself going thorough this again and agin and again.