Not sure what to think! - 12/15/06 06:25 AM
I am new to this site and forums. I found phone records of my H. He has been talking to OW for quite some time. I asked him and he said it was nothing they just talk. This talk is all day off and on when he is at work. I tried to tell him how it made me feel. We have had problems in our marriage for the last 5 years. He would not go into detail about anything they talked about. He said that he told me
nothing was going on and I should accept that and let it go.
He said he would not talk to her anymore, he didn't realize it would make me feel that bad. This has been three months ago. One other time I brought it up he just gets angry for me doing so. But we were suppose to talk about things that bother us. I was trying. Last week Wed. morning he was home when he would normally already be gone for work and his phone rang. He was in the shower. I looked and it was her. I did not know what to say. I laid it in front of him and left for work. He called all angry at me for getting all mad
and said he was moving out. He has threatened to move out before and left one time for two nights about two yrs ago.
We have not talked till today. He calls and said if I am going to continue acting like this (sleeping in other room) that he is done. He again told me that there was nothing more he could say about it. There was nothing there. And I just keep bringing it up. I tried to tell him that his avoiding talking about it in a civilized manner makes it worse. When I got home and tried to talk to him again he wanted nothing to do with me, said he was through talking and done with it. There is so much to this and I know I am being vague. Just need to get it off my chest. I really do not have anyone to talk to about it and thought if I put it out here it might help somehow.
nothing was going on and I should accept that and let it go.
He said he would not talk to her anymore, he didn't realize it would make me feel that bad. This has been three months ago. One other time I brought it up he just gets angry for me doing so. But we were suppose to talk about things that bother us. I was trying. Last week Wed. morning he was home when he would normally already be gone for work and his phone rang. He was in the shower. I looked and it was her. I did not know what to say. I laid it in front of him and left for work. He called all angry at me for getting all mad
and said he was moving out. He has threatened to move out before and left one time for two nights about two yrs ago.
We have not talked till today. He calls and said if I am going to continue acting like this (sleeping in other room) that he is done. He again told me that there was nothing more he could say about it. There was nothing there. And I just keep bringing it up. I tried to tell him that his avoiding talking about it in a civilized manner makes it worse. When I got home and tried to talk to him again he wanted nothing to do with me, said he was through talking and done with it. There is so much to this and I know I am being vague. Just need to get it off my chest. I really do not have anyone to talk to about it and thought if I put it out here it might help somehow.