My youngest wanted to know - 08/01/07 02:48 AM
I haven't been to this forum in quite a while-years actually. I have pretty much dove into my career and my busyness has kept me from thinking about my H's affair with my best friend. Now I am reeling from it again because my now 10 year old son has been asking questions. He was 2 at the time. My now 16 year old daughter was 8 and remembers things vividly. I cannot believe now that he has questions.
All I told him was that this woman was dad's secretary and decided that she liked him. The look on his face killed me. He pretty much figured the rest out. He looked up at me and yelled, "But dad was married to you!" All I could do was nod.
I feel like I'm in a new type of d-day. My H and daughter are out of state until Thursday. When I try to talk to him about issues that might slightly have to do with his A, he immediately shuts down and tells me to drop it. Now it involves the kids. How do I drop it?
All I told him was that this woman was dad's secretary and decided that she liked him. The look on his face killed me. He pretty much figured the rest out. He looked up at me and yelled, "But dad was married to you!" All I could do was nod.
I feel like I'm in a new type of d-day. My H and daughter are out of state until Thursday. When I try to talk to him about issues that might slightly have to do with his A, he immediately shuts down and tells me to drop it. Now it involves the kids. How do I drop it?