Has anybody used the MB questionnaires in a new relationship? Any good experiences with that, or bad?
I did. A good experience - and still continuing! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />
I also shared my copy of Fall In Love, Stay In Love.
When I started dating, I made the decision to freely and early describe what I had learned about relationships as a result of MBers and my personal experiences from my failed marriage. Discussion of ENs was obviously a part of that. I got to the "questionaire level" only once - with my current SO of 32 months. She embraced it willingly. That was about a month or so after we started dating. We "update" our questionaires periodically but informally, "How am I doing on your conversation EN?"
But I need to make an important point - when I started dating, it was mostly with new acquaintences via match.com. These women were looking for long term relationships. Unfolding the EN questionaire to a "fun date" is not appropriate, I believe.