My happy news - 09/13/05 03:05 AM
On Monday I got engaged to a great guy. He proposed on the top of a mountain with a gorgeous ring and a sweet speech. He also put the time and effort into making a craft project for me that we left there as a momento to the day. I am so in love with him and happy and yes, finally glad that I am divorced and ready to move forward with someone who loves me and who I can talk to about easy and hard things.
Its been a long and painful journey and I never thought I would be loved or love again. I was so stuck and unable to let go and see the possibiities for a future relationship while I was struggling to single handidly save my marrriage to a man who would not join me.
My fiancee is a person who seems perfect for me, ready to challenge me to communicate and be open with him, a safe place, willing to learn and grow, read about relationships, go to counseling... everything I could have wanted.
He has 2 children that beamed when we told them the news, and melted my heart.
I hope the 6 years I have spent here have helped me know what I want, to see the reality of relationships good and bad. I am savoring the early stages of love and bonding and caring and hope I can continue to meet his need as well as he meets mine and follow the principles for a long and happy relationship. I think we have a great start.
I wanted to share with all of you here, where I have been through so much and learned so much and let go of so much.
Its been a long and painful journey and I never thought I would be loved or love again. I was so stuck and unable to let go and see the possibiities for a future relationship while I was struggling to single handidly save my marrriage to a man who would not join me.
My fiancee is a person who seems perfect for me, ready to challenge me to communicate and be open with him, a safe place, willing to learn and grow, read about relationships, go to counseling... everything I could have wanted.
He has 2 children that beamed when we told them the news, and melted my heart.
I hope the 6 years I have spent here have helped me know what I want, to see the reality of relationships good and bad. I am savoring the early stages of love and bonding and caring and hope I can continue to meet his need as well as he meets mine and follow the principles for a long and happy relationship. I think we have a great start.
I wanted to share with all of you here, where I have been through so much and learned so much and let go of so much.