Working towards engagement and marriage with J.... - 12/09/06 03:59 AM
Hey all,
Just an update, after much thought I have finally decided my relationship with J, the love, the respect I have for him is all worth going forward with him.
He's a great guy with so much love to offer back. I was so undecided, it seemed to take so long to make up my mind, but now that I have, it's a relief and it feels right.
We both want to go forward, he's been spending time at my house, with my kids, etc. His parents invited me for Christmas day with them,unfortunately my boys won't be able to make it because of their dad's family but I'd rather introduce them at a different time than Christmas anyway. I will meet several relatives who are coming into town as well. I am sure you won't hear the words I am engaged for a while as I really want us to get to know each other as a family, but it is our goal now and hopefully with work, a lot of effort and a whole lot of love we will make it.
I appreciate so much all the kind words, the caring words, and the advice over the past years. I feel like we have all been through so many good and bad times together, and even though we are all adults, we have all grown up so much since our divorces. I appreciate so much those of you who have been there for me, and cared enough to want the best for me and give me good advice. I am sure I'll need even more advice as a new chapter in my life emerges now. I hope you will all wish nothing but the best for me and J and have only good thoughts now that I have made this decision.
Night all,
A <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />
Just an update, after much thought I have finally decided my relationship with J, the love, the respect I have for him is all worth going forward with him.
He's a great guy with so much love to offer back. I was so undecided, it seemed to take so long to make up my mind, but now that I have, it's a relief and it feels right.
We both want to go forward, he's been spending time at my house, with my kids, etc. His parents invited me for Christmas day with them,unfortunately my boys won't be able to make it because of their dad's family but I'd rather introduce them at a different time than Christmas anyway. I will meet several relatives who are coming into town as well. I am sure you won't hear the words I am engaged for a while as I really want us to get to know each other as a family, but it is our goal now and hopefully with work, a lot of effort and a whole lot of love we will make it.
I appreciate so much all the kind words, the caring words, and the advice over the past years. I feel like we have all been through so many good and bad times together, and even though we are all adults, we have all grown up so much since our divorces. I appreciate so much those of you who have been there for me, and cared enough to want the best for me and give me good advice. I am sure I'll need even more advice as a new chapter in my life emerges now. I hope you will all wish nothing but the best for me and J and have only good thoughts now that I have made this decision.
Night all,
A <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />