What should I do? - 01/20/07 07:20 AM
Good day to all,
I have been seeing Gfriend 4 months. I just came back from China after a 1 month holiday. We called every day when I was on holiday. Gfriend was so happy to see me. We have been seeing every day since the 16th (I came back on the 16th). Gfriend spend 2 nights ago at my place for the first time. I saw her yesterday and on the end of the night she text me the following after I asked her why is she so cold towards me.
I’m sorry to tell u, but I think I need some time for myself. Sort out what is going on in my mind. Everything is messed up in my head before you came back. And after last night I’m too confused to be with anybody….I am sorry.
I asked is there anybody else and should I wait for her? She answered no one else I believe her. She said it is over at the moment…..
Her back ground…..she was using drugs but has been off for 3 years. Her best friend and work mate left few months ago to work in another country and this has been too much for her to be with out this friend.
Her social worker\friend said that she thinks that this girlfriend might be using drugs again.
What should I do, leave her on her own or try to be there for her. I would like to be there for her because I love her. How can I be there…..text and try to phone…..as for a Plan A?
Van
I have been seeing Gfriend 4 months. I just came back from China after a 1 month holiday. We called every day when I was on holiday. Gfriend was so happy to see me. We have been seeing every day since the 16th (I came back on the 16th). Gfriend spend 2 nights ago at my place for the first time. I saw her yesterday and on the end of the night she text me the following after I asked her why is she so cold towards me.
I’m sorry to tell u, but I think I need some time for myself. Sort out what is going on in my mind. Everything is messed up in my head before you came back. And after last night I’m too confused to be with anybody….I am sorry.
I asked is there anybody else and should I wait for her? She answered no one else I believe her. She said it is over at the moment…..
Her back ground…..she was using drugs but has been off for 3 years. Her best friend and work mate left few months ago to work in another country and this has been too much for her to be with out this friend.
Her social worker\friend said that she thinks that this girlfriend might be using drugs again.
What should I do, leave her on her own or try to be there for her. I would like to be there for her because I love her. How can I be there…..text and try to phone…..as for a Plan A?
Van