New Relationship - 09/09/07 05:45 PM
Hi guys,
I have been dating a guy for about three weeks now. He's really great. I have been cautious about taking things slow and he's not been at all pushy about our relationship. I enjoy spending time with him, and now I have discovered that I am really beginning to develop feelings for him. A month ago, my future seemed very clear to me, but now, it's muddy. After my marriage dying and the Ex's whole affair, I have been hurt before. I know that and I accept that. I am a bit scared though about these feelings. No, I don't want to turn tail and run. I do need to come to terms that I am developing these feelings for someone new.
I don't think this new guy would ever do what ex did to me. In fact, his ex did the same thing. He was gone for a month on a job and came home to find his ex in bed with another man. I really don't believe that someone who has been hurt because of an affair would ever inflict that pain on another. So, in some aspects, we share a lot.
I guess I am just scared of my feelings and I just need to become a bit more comfortable with them. I think this is normal. Anyone have any advice out there???
I have been dating a guy for about three weeks now. He's really great. I have been cautious about taking things slow and he's not been at all pushy about our relationship. I enjoy spending time with him, and now I have discovered that I am really beginning to develop feelings for him. A month ago, my future seemed very clear to me, but now, it's muddy. After my marriage dying and the Ex's whole affair, I have been hurt before. I know that and I accept that. I am a bit scared though about these feelings. No, I don't want to turn tail and run. I do need to come to terms that I am developing these feelings for someone new.
I don't think this new guy would ever do what ex did to me. In fact, his ex did the same thing. He was gone for a month on a job and came home to find his ex in bed with another man. I really don't believe that someone who has been hurt because of an affair would ever inflict that pain on another. So, in some aspects, we share a lot.
I guess I am just scared of my feelings and I just need to become a bit more comfortable with them. I think this is normal. Anyone have any advice out there???