What to do with an Angry Husband - 06/29/12 01:42 AM
1. Do not negotiate when he is angry
2. Do not put up with his attempts to control
3. Attempt to present him with a plan using FILSIL
4. Introduce POJA, and why it benefits him
5. Confront him about his angry outbursts, and insist that they stop
6. If he is unable to stop his angry outbursts, insist that he must seek professional help
7. Do not hesitate to call 911 when he has an Angry Outburst
8. If domestic violence has occurred, separate
9. If violence has occurred, file a criminal report for assault
10. If he is unwilling to control his anger, separate
11. Once he's out, keep him out. Change the locks and file a restraining order if necessary.
12. Tell your friends and family about his abuse
13. Understand that him agreeing to change is only the first step
14. Understand that being separated for a year is a real possibility.
15. Do not let him come home until he has taken anger management and has learned to control himself
2. Do not put up with his attempts to control
3. Attempt to present him with a plan using FILSIL
4. Introduce POJA, and why it benefits him
5. Confront him about his angry outbursts, and insist that they stop
6. If he is unable to stop his angry outbursts, insist that he must seek professional help
7. Do not hesitate to call 911 when he has an Angry Outburst
8. If domestic violence has occurred, separate
9. If violence has occurred, file a criminal report for assault
10. If he is unwilling to control his anger, separate
11. Once he's out, keep him out. Change the locks and file a restraining order if necessary.
12. Tell your friends and family about his abuse
13. Understand that him agreeing to change is only the first step
14. Understand that being separated for a year is a real possibility.
15. Do not let him come home until he has taken anger management and has learned to control himself