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Posted By: pravinbh Wife Not Happy - 09/14/15 07:46 AM
I am financial week man. My salary is very low that's why my wife is not happy with me. she always hate me and she don't love me. so give me advice what i can i do?
Posted By: unwritten Re: Wife Not Happy - 09/14/15 01:31 PM
Hi pravinbh, welcome to Marriage Builders.

Are you legally married? How long have you been married? Do you have kids and what are their ages?

It sounds like Financial Support is a very important Emotional Need (EN) for your wife. Is there a way that you could increase your ability to meet this need, by looking for a better paying job, further educating yourself, etc?

What are her other complaints? It is very likely she has a low love bank balance for you for a number of reasons, and not just because you are not meeting her need for FS. If you explore those other reasons and fix those, the FS might not be as big of an issue for her (although you should continue to try and improve on meeting that need as well).

How much time do you spend with your wife each week?
Posted By: unwritten Re: Wife Not Happy - 09/14/15 01:31 PM
Also I would move this thread to the MB101 forum if you are legally married.
Posted By: pravinbh Re: Wife Not Happy - 09/15/15 08:17 AM
Thanks for your reply

Yes I am legally married, I have 1 child and he is 1 year old baby.
Posted By: Jedi_Knight Re: Wife Not Happy - 09/15/15 10:12 AM
Do you and your wife spend 15 hours a week together without the baby?
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