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Surviving an Affair
Jump to new posts Re: Facebook by KiwiJ @ 9 minutes 22 seconds ago

lol, Cinders, want me to come and harvest at your farm?
Surviving an Affair
Jump to new posts Re: felt compelled to post by KiwiJ @ 21 minutes 35 seconds ago

Wanted to add that the Wonderings know what they're talking about.
In Recovery
Jump to new posts Re: Recovering, I hope. by MelodyLane @ 59 minutes 2 seconds ago

Originally Posted By: NotSure2He's not indignant... he is somewhat remorseful, and I think he will be respectful to everyone at Thanksgiving. I think he just wants to hide and not face reality, that's all. I hope you help him with this, NS, becaus
Surviving an Affair
Jump to new posts Re: Grief from wifes passing and troubled marraige. by sortingitout @ Today at 09:23 PM

Originally Posted By: catperson If you do nothing else for your children but make sure they know you love and cherish them, the rest is inconsequential. Love is everything. You could be the most messed-up person on earth, but all they will remember i
Surviving an Affair
Jump to new posts Re: Completely Confused by rwinger @ Today at 09:13 PM

Quote:For the first 10 years of our marriage, I played professional football for 4 different teams. Because of the transient nature of this profession, we decided when our first DS was born to build a house near our families where she and DS could ha
In Recovery
Jump to new posts Re: Looking4's Journey by Mark1952 @ Today at 08:50 PM

You might want to hurry since I do sorta have to pee...
In Recovery
Jump to new posts Re: *20-90 SOMETHING Friends** (The OT Fun Threa by Mark1952 @ Today at 08:35 PM

Lil, I wasn't singling you out for offense.... I'm an equal opportunity offender. I'm no respecter of nationality... I disrespect everyone. How's things on that side of the world? Mark
Marriage Builders 101
Re: Mark, how is the MB group going at church? by Mark1952 @ Today at 08:26 PM

Retread, Thanks for asking. We finished up this past Wednesday night. Several people have told me that it was of benefit to their marriages. We're going to do it all again beginning in January and the first group is planning on having a potluck o
Marriage Builders 101
Re: DJ's & reactions by AliceGetsAClue @ Today at 08:14 PM

Originally Posted By: WhenIfindthetimeAlice, simple question for you: What is the difference between teaching, training, expecting, and patience? wiftty The amount of letters, lol. Seriously I'm still munching over what has been asked and sai
Marriage Builders 101
Re: Best (other) marriage book you have read by Retread @ Today at 07:56 PM

A bump to ask if anyone else has read any of the books mentioned?
Marriage Builders 101
Re: Retread: your thoughts on book? by Retread @ Today at 07:55 PM

CWMI, did you get your husband to read any of this book? Are you having to read it under the covers with a flashlight? Sounds like some of the problems have not blown up on you lately like they were doing. That's a good sign that both of you are th
Surviving an Affair
Jump to new posts Re: Neak is well and is home by still seeking @ Today at 07:51 PM

You should let me talk to them.
Marriage Builders 101
Re: Wife probs w/ MIL by AliceGetsAClue @ Today at 07:50 PM

Originally Posted By: AliceGetsAClueOwn your own actions or continue to allow yourself to be told how to act, at the expense of... At the expense of your own happiness. At the expense of a healthy family relationship. Originally Posted By: AliceGe
Surviving an Affair
Jump to new posts Re: The Fantasy of Divorce by stillhere8126 @ Today at 07:33 PM

But maybe my H is dead. Never to be heard from again...
Surviving an Affair
Jump to new posts Re: My depression her affair by stillhere8126 @ Today at 07:10 PM

Not sayin that BR doesnt know her stuff she does...I think when she said the doormat thing, IMHO, we BS' on here are very passionate about helping newbies and many of us were doormats at the beginning (me included, IDK about BR)or we made some mistak
Pregnancy/Child
Jump to new posts Re: Writer1's Story in a Nutshell by AliceGetsAClue @ Today at 07:09 PM

Writer I know you are going to make the best deciscions you know how for your daughter. I just caution you to always tell the truth to her when you choose to say anything to her about her lineage or when she asks. The truth is always best, even if it
In Recovery
Jump to new posts Re: Meanwhile back at the ranch.... by lildoggie @ Today at 07:02 PM

False alarm. We decided to buy a new one cos this one looks scabby. DD13 is NOT pleased!
Surviving an Affair
Jump to new posts Re: Just found out by Just Learning @ Today at 06:47 PM

YP, Your W is soooo typical of the thousands and thousands of WS that either post here or discussed by the BS's that post here. That is good news because that means that the MB approach has a high probability to succeed. So what do WW do while in
Surviving an Affair
Jump to new posts Re: Quick Plan A question. by optimism @ Today at 06:44 PM

You know what, Cat, that's not too far off the mark. The SuperNanny thing. I can honestly say that this whole MB thing first opened up my eyes to LBs (for me DJ's, AO's, IB's, dishonesty, etc.) and how damaging they are to a relationship. But what I
In Recovery
Jump to new posts Re: Lurioosi2's a new creation by lurioosi2 @ Today at 06:43 PM

Yeah, he is good at that house-y stuff. He can fix just about anything. I had no idea about those hidden talents when I married him. I am watching him sleep now - he doesn't feel very good. So much for attacking him later - ha!
In Recovery
Jump to new posts Re: Please 2x4 me!! by SugarCane @ Today at 06:31 PM

I should like that very much, but please remember to put the cream in the scones and not in the tea.
In Recovery
Jump to new posts Re: Recovering by Mark1952 @ Today at 06:18 PM

[tj] V, Things are going pretty well. We just finished our 9 weeks of studying FIL/SIL at the church, which went really well, I think. My wife and I are also beginning a NFP corporation that will be a food bank for horses to help owners of hors
Surviving an Affair
Jump to new posts Re: Lingerie never worn by StillNotSure @ Today at 06:01 PM

I'm starting to wonder...
In Recovery
Jump to new posts Re: "I'm tired of walking on eggshells" by Vittoria @ Today at 05:26 PM

Have a good one broken soul, weekend that is, and yeah whatever else.
Surviving an Affair
Jump to new posts Re: Did I make a HUGE mistake? by catperson @ Today at 05:22 PM

Quite understandable. Just keep the option open.
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