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#2764333 11/05/13 08:42 AM
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Hi All
New to this and just wanted to say thank you for having me - I am a 37 yo Wife who is a bit lost at the moment. I love my Husband dearly but just feel so unhappy at times and too busy to think at others - quite a complicated back story but we have been together 5 years, last year when we married my adored Dad died 3 days later - struggling to cope with this loss ever since. Don't get me wrong I still work, studying, look after my daughter - service everyones needs but on the inside sometimes feel just a bit empty and lost. A big issue for us is my inability to move on from that time - not just in respect of my Dad's loss but due to what I feel was me being let down by my husband when I needed him most. In many ways I feel he made a bad situation worse and for that I feel my trust in him has diminished. He won't let me talk about it but gets angry and says I am bringing up the past which is true but how do I move on? Build a bridge and get over it as it were?
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Did you take any of the great advice you were given prior to your marriage?

http://forum.marriagebuilders.com/u...in=166581&Number=2630769#Post2630769

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Thank you for the link - embarrassed to say I didn't - was a dark time and didn't revisit the site. Alot of information there and appreciate your help. L :0)

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So what about now?

Will you take the time to educate yourself on the materials offered for free here?

If not you won't get a lot out of this site or this forum.

The concepts taught on this site provided for free by Dr. Harley are amazing and have had amazing results for thousands of people who've taken the time to implement them.

You've lost faith in your H. If you build an interdependent M using Dr. Harley's principles you will see your H and your M as the rock, the foundation of your life.

Last edited by MrAlias; 11/05/13 09:15 AM.

Me: 57 Her: 54
M: 31 years
Kids(DS23, DD20, DS18)
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That sounds amazing and have alot of reading to do. Thank you for your support.


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