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#2311952 - 01/26/10 08:04 AM Re: Song for today... [Re: Pariah]
black_raven Offline
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Registered: 06/18/08
Posts: 2586
To listen, hit the "Listen Now" button to the left:

http://www.metrolyrics.com/let-it-be-me-lyrics-ray-lamontagne.html



Let It Be Me lyrics
Ray Lamontagne


There comes a time
A time in everyone's life
When nothing seems to go their way
When nothing seems to turn out right
There may come a time
You just can't seem to find your place
For every door you open
Seems like you get two slammed in your face

That's when you need someone
Someone that you can call
When all your faith is gone
It feels like you can't go on
Let it be me
Let it be me
If it's a friend you need
Let it be me
Let it be me

Feels like you always coming up last
Pockets full of nothing
Ain't got no cash
Don't matter where you turn
You ain't got no place to stand
You reach out for something and they slap your hand

I remember all too well
Just how it feels to be all alone
You feel like you'd give anything
For just a little place you can call your own

That's when you need someone
Someone that you can call
When all your faith is gone
It feels like you can't go on
Let it be me
Let it be me
If it's a friend you need
Let it be me
Let it be me
Let it be me
Let it be me
If it's a friend you need
Let it be me
Let it be me
Let it be me
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2 kids


Many a good man has failed because he had a wishbone where his backbone should have been.

We gain strength, and courage, and confidence by each experience in which we really stop to look fear in the face... we must do that which we think we cannot.
--------Eleanor Roosevelt

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#2312690 - 01/27/10 10:13 AM Re: Song for today... [Re: Pariah]
Skald Offline
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Registered: 11/16/08
Posts: 139
Loc: Happyrock, USA



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#2312693 - 01/27/10 10:16 AM Re: Song for today... [Re: Skald]
Skald Offline
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Registered: 11/16/08
Posts: 139
Loc: Happyrock, USA
Originally Posted By: Skald





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#2312700 - 01/27/10 10:23 AM Re: Song for today... [Re: Skald]
Dealan-de Offline
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Registered: 06/04/04
Posts: 8281
After watching the 5 year old tear down the hall, today's song has gotta be The Streak by Ray Stevens.

Boogity, boogity.
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#2313598 - 01/28/10 11:57 AM Re: Song for today... [Re: black_raven]
Vittoria Offline
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Registered: 12/03/08
Posts: 1880
Originally Posted By: black_raven
To listen, hit the "Listen Now" button to the left:



And to hear .... tug 3 times on your ear. stickout rotflmao
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D-Day 08/08 LTA

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Sometimes I think Mt. Everest would be an easier climb ......

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#2313617 - 01/28/10 12:19 PM Re: Song for today... [Re: Vittoria]
staytogether Offline
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Registered: 01/19/09
Posts: 1418
Loc: England (South)
I did it vit -it didn't make much difference- but I frgot to hit the listen now button.


I can't believe I actually just sat here tugging my here- see- I'd do anything you tell me to
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J: 36
DD: 7
DS: 4

A pessimist sees the difficulty in every opportunity; an optimist sees the opportunity in every difficulty (Winston Churchill)
A positive attitude may not solve all your problems, but it will annoy enough people to make it worth the effort. (Herm Albright)


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#2316710 - 02/02/10 12:57 PM Re: Song for today... [Re: Skald]
Pariah Offline
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Registered: 04/12/06
Posts: 1919
I'm headed to the High Ground


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I watch, and am as a sparrow alone upon the house top.

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#2316967 - 02/02/10 06:04 PM Re: Song for today... [Re: Pariah]
Pariah Offline
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Registered: 04/12/06
Posts: 1919
OK, y'all didn't like that one.

I like this one even more.


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I watch, and am as a sparrow alone upon the house top.

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#2317004 - 02/02/10 06:53 PM Re: Song for today... [Re: Pariah]
Scotland Offline
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Registered: 10/30/09
Posts: 3075
Loc: Ontario, Canada
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BdpJh_zc6k8

This is for all of the BW's who need some confidence. I LOVE this song.

You left me like a broken doll
In pieces as I took the fall
for you, you dumb chump!
You left me free-falling like space junk
Burning up in the atmosphere of life

Well I sound like a philosopher
but I'm a fool who's off her rocker
'Cause I let you in my heart that one last time

I've had enough, made up my mind
I'm gonna get up and out and wahhh!

I love myself today
Not like yesterday
I'm cool, I'm calm
I'm gonna be okay! Uh huh
I love myself today
Not like yesterday
Take another look at me now
'Cause it's your last look
Your last look forever

Well look at you you're all puffed up
In that big red truck- but you're outta luck (this time)
Well, that's tough
'Cause I'm on fire- too hot to touch
with a chatroom full of lovers on the line
Gonna step right up. Spit shine my soul
I'm gonna be proud and loud and outta control!

I love myself today
Not like yesterday
I'm cool, I'm calm
I'm gonna be okay! Uh huh
I love myself today
Not like yesterday
Take another look at me now
'Cause it's your last look
Your last look forever

I'm lookin' in the mirror and I like what I see:
I've lost the fear & the horror that's been eating at me
'Cause being with you is like a hangman's noose
I was living my life in dead man's shoes

I've had enough. Made up my mind
I'm gonna get up and out and wahhh!

I love myself today
Not like yesterday
I'm cool, I'm calm
I'm gonna be okay! Uh huh
I love myself today
Not like yesterday
Take another look at me now

I love myself today
Not like yesterday
You're dead and gone
I'm gonna get my way
I love myself today
Not like yesterday
Take another look at me now
'Cause it's your last look
Your last look forever!!

I love myself today [x7]


I may not agree with all of the words, but the sentiment is good. Very empowering.
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DDAY1-Nov 2007-Phone call from work
ILYBNILWY Sep 20/09 Our Anni
DDAY2 (PA started?) November 27/09 through keylogger
Plan A November 30- Dark Plan B Dec 18/09(My Bday)
WH moved in with POSOW as I went to Plan B
Personal R in works
"Scars remind us where we've been, they don't have to dictate where we are going."
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#2322324 - 02/11/10 01:55 PM Re: Song for today... [Re: Scotland]
Mark1952 Offline
Member

Registered: 06/26/06
Posts: 5803
On the Vacation Thread on the Recovery Forum, Cinders linked to a song she said was "gritty." As soon as I thought about that word for a second, I thought of this cut, from B.B.King.



The lyrics: (at least one version of them)
Quote:
Been downhearted baby
ever since the day we met
I've been downhearted baby
ever since the day we met
Our love is nothin' but the blues
Baby how blue can you get

My love is like a fire
Your love is like a cigarette
My love is like a fire
But baby yours is like a cigarette
I watch you step down on it baby and crush it
Tell me how, tell me how, how blue can you get

You're evil when I'm with you
and you're jealous when we're apart
Yes you're evil when I'm with you baby
You're jealous when we're apart
How blue can you get, Baby
The answer's right here in my heart

I gave you a brand new Ford
and you just said I want a Cadillac
I bought you a ten dollar dinner
You said Thanks for the snack
I let you live in my penthouse
You said it was just a shack
I gave you seven children
and now you wanna give 'em back

I've been downhearted baby
ever since the day we met
Our love is nothin' but the blues
Baby how blue can you get
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We can only appreciate the miracle of a sunrise if we have waited in the darkness.
Musings From Mark
Managing Memories
Trouble Shooting and Repair
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