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Pepperband posted this over on the Pregnancy forum and I thought it would be a good idea to post it here too. A must see!!
Radio clip between Dr Harley and a man who "sat on the sidelines" while his wife had an affair - he is now getting divorced: Part 1Part 11
Another clip where Dr Harley tells a betrayed husband that "it is hard to save a marriage when you become an enabler": click here
Dr Harley tells board member, BTinTrouble to expose the hell out of his wife's affair and to NOT offer forgiveness: BTinTrouble calls Dr Harley
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt
By the way, they still have the Marriage Builders "weekends" but now they are done online. It is the same course that many of us attended when we had to fly there. Same course, just done online now.
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt
Amen. Thank you Dr Harley for all you do for married couples!
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt
Thank you both for providing a sense of sanity to the insanity of an affair and a set of plans that work to recover a marriage. And they work ..... if couples actually use them.
AM
BW - 70 WH - 65 M - 35 years D-day - 17 Apr 08 H broke contact 11/1/09 Back in love after the worst thing that every happened to us.
And, if you appreciate this FREE resource, use THIS THREAD to express your gratitude to the Harleys.
Thank you, Dr. Harley, and Joyce! I appreciate having these available and spent part of the last two weekends watching them.
One of my little boys came through and recognized the voice from all the Marriage Builders radio we listen to in the car and said "Is that Dr. Harley?!" He was excited!
It has taken every single Marriage Builders resource available: the website, the books, the radio program, the coaching center, the weekend seminar and followup program, and this forum, but our marriage is finally on the right track and making both of us (and our children) happy. I feel like I was a real hard nut to crack.
If you are serious about saving your marriage, you can't get it all on this forum. You've got to listen to the Marriage Builders Radio show, every day. Install the app!
Married to my radiant trophy wife, Prisca, 19 years. Father of 8. Attended Marriage Builders weekend in May 2010
If you are serious about saving your marriage, you can't get it all on this forum. You've got to listen to the Marriage Builders Radio show, every day. Install the app!
Married to my radiant trophy wife, Prisca, 19 years. Father of 8. Attended Marriage Builders weekend in May 2010
Let the record show that you used the word "nut," and not me.
Right. You would never call me something like that.
If you are serious about saving your marriage, you can't get it all on this forum. You've got to listen to the Marriage Builders Radio show, every day. Install the app!
Married to my radiant trophy wife, Prisca, 19 years. Father of 8. Attended Marriage Builders weekend in May 2010
BW 36(Me) WS 38 Married: 2000 DD1November 22 2008 - DD2 October 2014 PA Duration September 08 - November 08 Second discovery- 6 online affairs 4 sexual one emotional. October 2014.kids: DS 17, DS 14, DS 12, DS 10 . Baby after divorce DS 18months
Divorced
Was misled into thinking we were in recovery for 6 years.
If you were shocked reading any of this, that this is the consequence of not following MB to the LETTER.
And, if you appreciate this FREE resource, use THIS THREAD to express your gratitude to the Harleys.
Five years later. Still insanely grateful and much much happier. Sharing all this material at church and everywhere else.
If you are serious about saving your marriage, you can't get it all on this forum. You've got to listen to the Marriage Builders Radio show, every day. Install the app!
Married to my radiant trophy wife, Prisca, 19 years. Father of 8. Attended Marriage Builders weekend in May 2010
