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I realize that I screwed up and I would probably just be here anyway if I had exposed. Yes, I made a [huge] mistake.

Now I need to know what to do next...

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Originally Posted by Hosea1968
I realize that I screwed up and I would probably just be here anyway if I had exposed. Yes, I made a [huge] mistake.

Now I need to know what to do next...

Expose this now by YOURSELF.

Follow the templates you were advised to use in the Exposure 101 link.

Post your letter and who you intend to contact here 1st and TAKE the veterans advice.

Answer all questions promptly and don't beat around the bush anymore.

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I cannot legally do that. I am forbidden - by threat of law - to have "any communication to or about" and "either directly or indirectly or through a third party".

She has an order of protection against me that prevents me from saying anything. If I make a public statement like that, I'll go to jail.

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Originally Posted by Hosea1968
I cannot legally do that. I am forbidden - by threat of law - to have "any communication to or about" and "either directly or indirectly or through a third party".

She has an order of protection against me that prevents me from saying anything. If I make a public statement like that, I'll go to jail.

Asking for support for your marriage while telling the truth is not illegal.

I definitely would love to go to trial and have the opportunity to present Sworn and Notarized Affidavits, take Depositions and make various Discovery Motions, including financial records and Interogetories and have witnesses testify under Oath.

What's your next excuse?

You asked what you Should Do Next.

You are not willing to do it and never have been.

Why Ask?

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Waywards do not initiate Plan B. So you are not in Plan B unless it is your own plan.



What would you do if you were not afraid?

"Fear is the little death. Fear is the mind-killer" Frank Herbert.

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Hosea,

If you are legally barred from exposing your wife's lesbian affair
I suggest you write to Dr. Harley and ask for instruction.

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Oh, at a minimum I would make sure a friend posted the OW on Cheaterville

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