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She lives in a neighboring town.

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Originally Posted by schwarz99
She was actually the cheater in their marriage. And I was divorcing a raging alcoholic. We didn't involve our children or families or ourselves fully until we were divorced. But it any since, yes, our marriage started as an affair in some sense.

Well, he was a cheater too because he was still married when you were rolling around in the sack with him.

There is little hope for your situation. Most affairs do not last.
This includes people that hook up while "separated" or in the process of a divorce.

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Originally Posted by schwarz99
yes we have talked about it and he has been exposed to everyone, what you have stated is of course my biggest concern. I have no issues with trying to move past it and making our marriage whole again.
That is why Im asking for help finding info on living apart or moving back in. I just would like to have some guidelines from the website that he and I can sit down and talk about.

Did you expose to all of OW family and friends?
Did you post her on www.cheaterville.com?

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Thank you for your opinion but I disagree.

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Originally Posted by schwarz99
Thank you for your opinion but I disagree.

What do you disagree with?
Did I state something nonfactual?

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I don't agree that there is little hope for my marriage to be fixed. That is all.

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