Endure I dont get any time to come on here any more but I've been very worried all week by your denial.
Here's why you don't have a remorseful husband who is thrilled at your offer of forgiveness. You're confused, but it's really very simple.
He is a man in love elsewhere and doesn't give two hoots about your second chance. He's in love (physically and emotionally despite your proof bring solely emotional) who is in a great deal of trouble with his main priority in life. She has ordered him to get you back in your box by any means necessary and they are in full tilt damage control.
He's in love with her and has sex with her. Sorry but you need to stop expecting him to respond to you as number one.
My husband is furious and will barely communicate with me. I feel like I did the right thing....
His best shot at protecting her is to intimidate you.
You're right. I just finished contacting his family to complete the exposure. I will verify tomorrow if she really did resign. I'm trying to have faith that this will help rather than hurt the situation. Thanks for all your advice! I'm wishing I had contacted his family earlier, but it is what it is.
You haven't exposed her? You are woefully underestimating her importance and the need to run her off.
I agreed to no longer have any contact with her husband and their family. He blocked me on FB.
They cannot stop seeing each other voluntarily. They have strong feelings. You left them no choice but to heed your warning and block you from her husband. He will never know she blocked you from his account. Seen this many times.
I hope you are wrong but of course there's a possibility that you are right. .
It's a dead cert. Hope is not a plan. Ending this properly by taking it seriously is. It's only romantic while they can protect its secrecy. In the light of day it's.....an embarrassment.
I just checked out the number... It is the number of the gun shop that they own. I believe it was him I spoke to. I doubt she would have a friend pretend to be him in his own gun shop...
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I don't. People are going to find out she is having an affair. She's going to lose the man she loves. She's not going to care about being caught fibbing while trying to prevent all that.
Her husband would have gotten in touch to ask you every question he possibly could.
Please take this seriously. It's a full blown relationship and they are close to leaving to be together.
She has friends and family who don't know, and she can tell her husband she's simply not in love. Then your H, who is upset about exposure (because he isn't going to apologize) will abandon his family and rely on her support network.
Confirmed that she did resign today, gave her two weeks notice.
I would still use spyware. Resigning is a good way to get way you to back off. It will also protect her employment record if she jumps before discovery.
Your husbands behaviour and the strange behaviour of her 'husband' still indicates an on going affair.
