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Re: Devastated
goody2shoes #2878668 03/21/16 05:18 PM
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I have been doing more of that these days...getting out...

BW, me - 44
WH - 47
Married 2.5yrs
EA 6-2015 estimate
PA 9-2015 estimate
D-day 11-22-2015
WH filed divorce 11-23-2015
Exposure 1-10-2016
Re: Devastated
Alwayslookingup #2878703 03/22/16 08:49 AM
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Originally Posted by Alwayslookingup
I have been doing more of that these days...getting out...

I used to take bubble baths!

Lots of bubble baths....sometimes more than one a day. It helped calm me, soothe me, and indulge me....I felt like *I* was "important" and special!

Lots of candles and my favorite music in the background.

Take good care of YOU now. Indulge yourself in "feel good" activities, and get your mind on YOU and making YOU feel stronger, healthier, happier. This is your time.

Bring more peace into your world. Block out the other stuff. Don't dwell on it.

Once I was BW. Now happily RE-married!
I was there. It's painful. It's hard.
But it's totally doable and worth it.
Re: Devastated
OlderWiser #2878705 03/22/16 09:02 AM
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I'm trying! Thx!

BW, me - 44
WH - 47
Married 2.5yrs
EA 6-2015 estimate
PA 9-2015 estimate
D-day 11-22-2015
WH filed divorce 11-23-2015
Exposure 1-10-2016
Re: Devastated
Alwayslookingup #2881180 05/08/16 03:35 AM
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Moved to Uranus
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Moved to Uranus
How are things?

FWW/BW (me)
WH
2nd M for both
Blended Family with 7 kids between us
Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.
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