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Don't even discuss it. Just go to the bank and separate your finances. If she asks about it, tell her the finances need to be separated since you are separating.
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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Just do it and move it to a separate bank. Take the day off if you must. Don't ask permission to protect yourself from her affair. Waywards spend money like water. Protect the family money from her poor impulses.
Last edited by apples123; 09/30/16 09:52 PM. Reason: spelling
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No, I know for sure that she is going with her sister to go hiking. This has been planned long before the "bomb drop" or the affair started. And I have been communicating with her sister about the trip to handle the financial side of it. Not the first WW to have a sister cover for them and help her conduct her affair.
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