Originally Posted by wifeinstrife
I strongly asked him stop several times over the past months of this affair.
Not a one of us here were able to kill an affair by strongly asking our spouse to stop. Dr. Harley advises us to expose the affair and then demand no further contact for life, and THEN if the spouse doesn't stop, he advises Plan B. Strongly asking doesn't work and we never insinuated that it did.

Originally Posted by wifeinstrife
One of which led to him buying another phone and telling me he had quit talking and seeing her and he agreed to work on us. I was fooled for 3 months at which point I found out and that is when I moved out for 3 months.
Yes exactly. Which is why Dr. Harley tells us that we must expose. We are supposed to only tip our hand once we have our ducks in a row to make a thorough exposure. Otherwise, the wayward just takes the info, spins it to their own favor, and goes further underground to hide the affair.

I don't know why you continue to post the same fogbabble to us, we all respond with the same advice, and then you go and disappear again for a time.

Sixteen pages of posts, and NOTHING has changed. frown

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