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Yes you should expose even if you are divorcing.
FWW/BW (me)
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2nd M for both
Blended Family with 7 kids between us
Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.
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I should have followed suggestions and had D last year. I'm planning on exposure and then D. Does it make sense to expose even if there is nothing left to save? Yes, expose this. Have you exposed this to your children yet?
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In case you do not re-read this thread - please remember all that we have explained to you about serial cheaters, should you decide to stay with her (I know that you said you are divorcing but you have said that before...to be honest, I'm not sure that I believe you).
Serial cheaters WILL express remorse and promise to do everything under the sun to keep the marriage, including implementing all kinds of EPs. And then they will backslide over time.
So when your WW throws crumbs at you to try to keep you in the marriage again (and that will probably happen) ignore her words, tears, remorse and claims about how she was groomed by the OM. That is all meaningless and a distraction. This is the MO of a wayward.
She cannot have a phone, she probably cannot even leave the house unless she is with you and she cannot have access to a computer. There can be zero opportunity for an affair. Otherwise, you should just expect more of the same.
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