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I had my wife take the test. This is a summary of the answers:
1. Affection: Need for= 2 Evaluation of my affection= 2 I give her "all the affection she needs and she likes the way I do it."
2. Sex Fullfilment: Need for= 1 Evaluation of sex= 1 I give her "all she needs and she likes the way I do it."
3. Conversation: Need for= 4 Evaluation of = 1 I give her "not enough conversation and when we do it it is not the way she likes it"
4. Recreational Companionship: Need for= 2 Evaluation of= 0 I give her "all the recreational companionship she needs and she likes the way I do it."
5. Honesty and Openess: Need for= 5 Evaluation of= 1 I am "open and honest with her but it is not the way she likes it." (I asked her about this and she said it is because I am negative alot about how I feel and things when I talk?)
6. An attractive Spouse: Need for= 3 Evaluation of= (Left Blank) My spouse is "attractive to me and I like the way he does it". 7. Financial Support: Need for= 4 Evaluation of= 2 My spouse "earns enough money and I like the way he does it".
8. Domestic Support: Need for= 4 Evaluation of= 2 My spouse gives me "all the support I need and I like the way he does it."
9. Family Commitment: Need for= 5 Evaluation of= 2 "Commits enough time to family, and spends it in ways I like".
10. Admiration: Need for= 3 Evaluation of= 1 "all the admiration I need, and I like the way he does it.
Ranking of 6 emotional needs:
1. Family Commitment 2. Honesty and Openess 3. Conversation 4. Domestic Support 5. Financial Support 6. Affection
To me there seems to be some contradicitions. Plus, I wonder how truthful she was. Maybe she did not want to hurt my feelings or was afraid I would discuss the results with her and ask why she rated in a certain way. )I am curious as to why the attractiveness was left blank?)
Also, for the record she did not like the survey and said it did nto make sense and that they were all the same question.
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