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Yes Tony....we are listening so keep posting.
I just popped in to say Hi. I don't have much advice for you because this roller coaster your on is very scarey.
All I can tell you (for sure) is "it will stop".
I'm sure you already know that but you must believe it too.
Good luck Tony and I promise you. It does get better.
Jeff
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Hang in there Tony.
"don't shelter her from her consequences" and two "protect and be there for your children"....this along with taking care of you and the children emotionally, physically and spiritually are all that you really have any control over for now. When I finally figured this one out I started to move forward. Let her go. She is determined to self destruct and you nor anyone else is going to stop her. So, let her. At that time she will have an opportunity to come face to face with the Almight or she can ask someone for a bigger shovel and keep digging. You can only pray for her. You may or may not want her back then but still do pray that she makes the right decision at that point (for her soul, the children, etc).
You WILL get through this one day at a time.
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Thank you Hope.
I pray for her everyday.
she doesn't know what she is doing.
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I hope you will find the strength to hang in there. My D-day was 3 1/2 years ago, and your post brought back the feelings that I have forgotten. Life is good again, and I am happier than before. I remember the days and long nights when I didn't think I could make it another hour.
You can have hope in the fact that they usually do come back. There is just the matter of whether you will still want her.
For me, when my husband finally realized what he was doing, it was too late.
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