Well, she's no Me though either (lol).

Sounds like that is the best plan of action (that must be what "plan A" stands for, haha). I do a lot for him, which is why the "don't do anything for me" will be so hard ... I will just be the best wife and mom I can be. I will show love through my actions and back off when needed. I just don't want him getting too comfortable with this friends/co-parents-living-together-but-separated thing. I don't want him thinking that this will last forever. At some point he'll need to decide if he's willing to give it a shot or not. I don't want to put pressure on him to make that decision though. I'll just be myself and hope he likes the new me and eventually falls in love all over again.

Happily Recovered from Double Infidelity! \:\)
DD1[about to turn 7]
DD2[due at X-mas]