I asked if we could still spend our anniversary together ... he said he had plans and wasn't sure if he would change them. He thinks of our anniversary as a bad day, a slap in the face to remember a day I pledged my devotion and then didn't follow through. I guess I just hadn't thought of it like that.

Happily Recovered from Double Infidelity! \:\)
DD1[about to turn 7]
DD2[due at X-mas]