I don't want to end my M, but he is not showing any signs of trying to work anything out. He gives signals that he wants to stay sometimes, then pulls these disappearing acts. Then, last night a girl called my cell phone for him! It seemed intentional.

If I wasn't busting my a** to repair this M, I wouldn't be so bold. But I am ... I have done SOOOOOO MUCH to show that I love and him and am willing to do WHATEVER IT TAKES to repair/rebuild. He just keeps being destructive to the M and the family.

So ...
Question of the day: Do I stay in Plan A (funny I'm plan A-ing and I'm the FWW), or move to Plan B???

Happily Recovered from Double Infidelity! \:\)
DD1[about to turn 7]
DD2[due at X-mas]