Yeah ... I am still iffy on this one. On one hand, it is a chance for him to see me as the woman he might consider coming home to - the woman his family loves and a reminder of how things could be. On the other, it seems ridiculous!

I just moved my money out of the bank account. He has no explanation for the withdrawals and has been spending money out at bars. I decided that I am not paying for his party-time. Consider it a personal and financial boundary.